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Update... and importance of Brethren during Life events.

Some time has elapsed since my last blog post.  But, lots have been happening. 

For my Masonic audience... as for any "drama" that was alluded to in previous posts, that seems to be subsiding.  Many of the local Brethren and leadership in my Lodge are actively working to move forward and focus on the health and future of our Lodge, its membership, and the fraternity at large. I respect and admire that about those taking that stance. I'm finding myself more inclined to participate in events, rituals, and even coach a new candidate. I've yet to see any indication that the same can be said of any neighboring Lodges, District, or Grand Lodge Leadership.  But, I'm hopeful and optimistic that they are also moving forward and not actively (whether intentionally, or not) perpetuating any historical problems amongst the craft.  

For all my followers, Masonic and otherwise, I just created an article on LinkedIN.  It is a "new to me" journaling effort. Since I only have limited hours to spend on blogging these days, I decided to include a link to that article on this blog.  I know many friends, brothers, and followers that may be going through career milestones and transitions that may benefit from my experiences over the past year.  I had been conditioned as to what my career and working life should be.  I'm learning that it can be MUCH different. I'm also learning that I may still not know "what I want to be when I grow up".  Although a little late for some of these epiphanies, I still welcome the enlightenment.  My health is better, I'm content, and I'm excited for what the next chapter may be.  Feel free to read, comment, and share your own thoughts and experiences, as you see fit.  

While I really have ZERO regrets, I do have one thing for the betterment of anyone affected or concerned and more especially the Masonic Fraternity.  This past year had a lot of uncertainty for me in my home life, health, and as you will find in the article... my career.  I'm often asked why participation in the Lodge is waning.  One reason is the experience members have in the Fraternity. I was disappointed that Lodge drama made it difficult to have relationships and discussions with those that I should be able to lean on in a time when it was needed.  Don't be that person going forward and don't allow the culture to become one of being inapproachable.  

Another reason for lack of growth is the image of the Lodge in the community. Let me assure everyone, including my non-Masonic friends and followers.  There are many of you that I COULD depend on and I was able to gain much counsel from you. You know who you are and are very much appreciated. Let's not only work on ourselves, our relationships, and where applicable, our Fraternity. But, work also on being an example for the community and for its future leaders (Masonic and non-Masonic, alike).  Be the people you wish you could lean on, when needed. 

Enjoy the LinkedIN article.  I'll be back soon with more "Ink of Integrity" and "Modern Morality".  

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/growing-up-semi-retiring-johnny-coxx-hmmye

 


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